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My second marriage was falling apart. I was in my early 40s and I began to ask myself, “What is wrong with me?? Why can’t I seem to find a successful, loving relationship?” The answer, I decided, was that I lacked femininity. 

I am a strong, independent woman. I had always been a bit tomboyish, love watching sports, playing outside, and most comfortable hanging with the boys. I was not going to ever be a weak, needy, dependent woman who couldn’t take care of herself. I decided men would find that attractive and appreciate that about me. However, as time went on and that clearly wasn’t working, I began to look for guidance on how to be more feminine.

In the long journey for me, a whole new world opened up. I discovered that feminine, in many ways, isn’t at ALL what I thought it was. I discovered the importance of finding what my own, unique feminine essence was and how my own feminine and masculine energies worked together. I discovered how much I love and adore masculine energy (which secretly I had felt terrified of) and all that it provides.

I learned that being strong on the outside to protect my scared little girl who never felt good enough actually pushed men away and ruined relationships due to be over functioning, blaming and feeling unsupported.

When I tried communicating my feelings, I was often making him wrong or criticizing him.

I realized that to me being vulnerable was too risky and would get me cast aside.

As I softened into and grew in my feminine, my life transformed. I found love for all the parts of myself and a willingness to be in a loving supportive relationship with myself. My relationships became more fulfilling, matching who I truly am and what I truly want. My career shifted and what I felt was my true heart’s desire, purpose and passion emerged.

My passion is helping other women who are feeling stuck, unfulfilled, frustrated and disassociated from themselves, to rekindle their inner connection and reignite their feminine essence. With guidance based in a feminine energy kit of reconnection tools, Shamanic Astrology, and ancient holistic practices, I am confident anyone who want to put in the effort can more easily and quickly move in to their creative, feminine space to have the love and relationship they truly desire.

I am an intuitive advisor with over 28 years of professional experience and extensive study of Astrology. My life training includes being an Ambassador of The Desilets Method with Dr. Saida Desilets, in depth study of Shamanic Astrology paradigm created by Daniel Giamario and Cayelin Castell, and Relationship Coach Training with Master Coach Rori Raye.